My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years.  We have a great sex life and click very well. The other girls I have dated in the past have always used their pelvic muscles during sex to enhance our secessions.  My girlfriend does not and at times is not very enjoyable to me. I tried to suggest that maybe try to do kegel exercises.  She just tells me that it is too hard for her to due and blows it off. The last girl I dated used to use some metal balls she bought at www.intimatewholesalers.com to help her due these exercises.  I recommended to my girlfriend about the metal balls and the exercises again, but she does not get the idea. Is she just lazy about it or is it a lot harder for some women to it then others?  Once again, I am very happy and plan to settle down with her but, this I a large problem with my sex live. Is there any way to tell her how important this is to me with still being polite about it?

Administrator   General September 2007

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Administrator   General September 2007

I think the idea of buying lingerie is a good idea.  I had the same problems with my DH.  He and I just had our first baby together, she’s 3 months old now.  And actually it’s my drive that it out the window.  But I think whoever is having the sexdrive issue, doesn’t matter.  It just matters that you do something about it so it’s not a habit. 

Anyway - I got a really cute lingerie outfit online, since i didn’t really have the time to hit the lingerie stores! haha…  and I got a super cute babydoll outfit.  I kind of did it for myself to get in the mood.  I have to put in a good word to where I got it from, too - they do have a really nice selection and are not expensive (Intimate Wholesalers).  Well, even though I didn’t look like the model - my husband really dug it!  I think it’s good to mix things up a bit.  And if you make that first effort, then it’s a lot easier for him to make extra efforts with helping you around the house..

Here’s the one that I got - stretchy babydoll

Administrator   General September 2007